15 Ways to Personalize Your Wedding

Be inspired to customize your celebration to fit your personalities.

While selecting your desired color palette can be seen as personalizing your celebration, many brides and grooms choose to take the customization process a bit further in order to design an event that feels truly unique to them. After all, you'll be spending months planning the details of your special day, so why not make sure each one shares a part of your personality or love story?

From the location itself, to the emblem on your paper goods, to subtle elements that will make your guests feel extra special, we love when couples infuse their backgrounds into the big day. Your wedding is a day that celebrates your love, and we feel that it's an excellent opportunity to be a reflection of who you are as a couple. Instead of hosting your loved ones for a party, take them on a journey of your story and share all of your favorite things with all of your favorite people.

Take a look at 15 ways to personalize your wedding, below. To see more from each of these celebrations, be sure to click on each photo!

1. Meaningful Venue & Location
Let the setting of your nuptials allow you to share your love story. Select the city where you first met, a museum where you had your first kiss, a hotel that you visited together during your courtship, or a venue near the spot where you became engaged. The options are endless!
Bride and groom in front of Chicago skyline at venue near where they first met
Photo by Artistrie Co.

2. Invitations & Paper Goods
Allow your invitations and the stationery used throughout your wedding show off your personalities. If you love to travel together, why not incorporate a passport theme for your paper goods? Even adding a custom monogram or motif will help your personalities shine through.
Passport flying themed wedding invitation suite personalize wedding ideas
Photo by Troy Grover Photographers; Floral & Event Design by White Lilac Inc.

3. Welcome Boxes
Ideal for out-of-town guests, we recommend providing a welcome bag or box filled with your favorite snacks and beverages. This makes your loved ones feel special and it's also a great opportunity to share some of your favorite things with friends and family.
Welcome box basket gift bag for destination wedding or out of town guests personalize wedding
Photo by Sarah Kate, Photographer; Planning & Design by Diamond Affairs Weddings & Special Events

4. Weekend Itinerary
If you're having a destination wedding weekend or if many of your guests will be traveling to your nupitals, consider providing an itinerary for a full weekend complete with activities you enjoy. For larger weddings, supply a list of your favorite spots in the city for guests to check out once the festivities are over.
personalize wedding wedding weekend itinerary with favorite spots in venue location
Photo by Branco Prata; Planning & Design by EVOKE

5. Honor Late Loved Ones
An easy way to personalize your wedding and also make it meaningful is to honor your family members who are no longer with you. Some couples do this by having a table with photos at the ceremony or reception, while other couples choose a more subtle route – like the bride, below, who entered on a horse to honor her late mother's love of Arabian horses.
Bride in Claire Pettibone wedding dress on horse personalize wedding honor late loved ones
Photo by Amanda McKinnon Photography; Bridal Gown by Claire Pettibone

6. Personalizing the Ceremony
Another way to personalize your wedding is to ensure the ceremony reflects both of your beliefs. The couple pictured below, for example, incorporated traditional wedding vows for the bride (who is Catholic), while they also partook in the breaking of the glass per Jewish tradition to honor the groom's upbringing. 
Personalize wedding ideas ceremony with traditions of both bride and groom interfaith
Photo by Laurie Bailey Photography; Bridal Gown by Anne Barge; Planning & Design by Ilana Ashley Events

7. Customize Ceremony Programs
Many of your wedding guests likely know the basics of your relationship, but why not share more details that are meaningful to you as a couple? The ceremony program is a wonderful place to incorporate your love story as guests will be reading it as you become husband and wife.
Wedding program with love story black and gold wedding details
Photo by Milanes Photography; Floral & Event Design by Akeem Clayton Designs

8. Personalized Aisle Runner
One of the most wonderful, visual ways to personalize your ceremony is to have a custom aisle runner featuring your monogram. 
White and gold wedding aisle runner custom details personalize wedding day
Photo by Leslie Ann Photography; Aisle Runner by The Original Runner Company

9. Sharing Your Favorite Foods
Whether you do so during cocktail hour, the dinner service at your reception, or by way of late-night snacks, more and more couples are selecting fare that they love to eat – at formal events and laid-back dinners at home. Talk to your caterer about crafting high-end versions of your favorite comfort foods.
Personalize wedding favorite foods on tray cocktail hour appetizers
Photo by Eric Kelley; Planning & Design by Kelli Corn Weddings and Events

10. Signature Cocktails
Perhaps you and your beloved have a libation that you love to share after a tough day at work, or you each have a favorite drink that you always order at the bar. In addition to beer, wine, and well drinks, have one or two signature cocktails that guests can enjoy – while learning more about your drink(s) of choice.
Personalize wedding signature cocktails at cocktail hour
Photo by Bob & Dawn Davis Photography

11. Meaningful Escort Cards
Instead of having a calligrapher simply write your guests' names on escort cards, get creative! Make guests feel special by incorporating personal photos in lieu of traditional stationery, or have an illustrator create custom portraits of each guest.
Wedding reception personalize ideas escort card with photos of each guest
Photo by Bryan N. Miller Photography; Planning & Design by EverAfter Events

12. Specialty Wedding Favors
More and more couples are skipping favors that end up in junk drawers and choosing more personal options. Share your famous limoncello recipe from a vacation you took together or have your grandmother bake homemade cookies instead.
Escort cards that double as favors personalize wedding recipe drink snacks desserts
Photo by Lane Dittoe; Planning & Design by Tessa Lyn Events

13. Include Your Pets
Even if your venue restricts your dog from walking down the aisle with you, there are many ways to include your furry friend without them actually being present. Name a cocktail after them or incorporate their drawing in signage or other paper goods.
Personalize wedding idea dog in signage wedding pets included
Photo by Melani Lust Photography 

14. Create Your Own Special Dances
If sharing your first dance doesn't feel quite right without including your son or daughter, by all means, include them! We've also seen couples extend the traditional mother-son and father-daughter dances to include sibling dances as well.
Personalize wedding special dance heidi mueller and demarco murray first dance with daughter
Photo by Thisbe Grace Photography; Linens by Nüage Designs; Planning & Design by Jordan Payne Events

15. Personalized Notes
One way to personalize your wedding and make each and every guest feel special is to provide your loved ones with handwritten notes thanking them for being with you on your special day.
Personalize wedding ideas handwritten note to every guest
Photo by Liz Banfield & Adrienne Page; Linens by Nüage Designs

Discover more ways to personalize your wedding here, read a wedding planner's advice on customizing your big day, and be inspired by these beautiful custom aisle runners.

Authored by: Kelcy Christy